COACHING PROGRAM
“Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.”
– Henry Cloud (NYT bestselling author)
For anyone looking to take their dating skills or their relationship to the next level, our unique coaching program is specifically designed to help you from making the right first impression to developing a deep, genuine relationship.

Dr. Vanessa Vincent, PsyD
Program Lead
Relationship Coaching
Every member receives personalized coaching from their matchmaker – a trusted partner dedicated to making your introductions successful. Or you can dive into the heart of our program: personalized coaching sessions with a certified relationship coaches.
A typical program begins with a field coaching session which puts you on a date with one of The Standard Agency Ambassadors. In addition to real-time feedback, your ambassador will work with your coach to suggest areas for improving your game.
The core of the program is 6 hours of private coaching designed to address your unique needs and goals. These sessions are tailored just for you, incorporating valuable insights from your personal matchmaker.
Relationship Coaching
Every member receives personalized coaching from their matchmaker – a trusted partner dedicated to making your introductions successful. Or you can dive into the heart of our program: personalized coaching sessions with a certified relationship coaches.
A typical program begins with a field coaching session which puts you on a date with one of The Standard Agency Ambassadors. In addition to real-time feedback, your ambassador will work with your coach to suggest areas for improving your game.
The core of the program is 6 hours of private coaching designed to address your unique needs and goals. These sessions are tailored just for you, incorporating valuable insights from your personal matchmaker.

Dr. Vanessa Vincent, PsyD
Program Lead
Coaching is Mainstream.
Professional golfers travel with swing coaches. Presidents rely on speech coaches. CEOs hire executive coaches. The best don’t go it alone — they invest in guidance that sharpens their edge. Dating should be no different. Our coaching isn’t about fixing flaws, it’s about elevating your game so you can find the partner you truly want.
A Personalized Stylist
Hey, what’s important is what’s on the inside, right? Well, let us help you make sure they are interested enough to find out – what’s the inside.
A 2022 UC-Davis study found that that first impressions perhaps play the most critical role in how relationships develop. Fortunately, first impressions are a highly controllable factor.
Your plan includes a consultation with a stylist, which can help you stay current while continuing to express your personal style.
Of course, if you are already confident with your current look, then you can choose to convert your stylist session to additional time with your personal coach.
Practice Dates
Have you ever wondered how your dating approach compares to today’s expectations? How often should you text? Is an evening dinner better than a casual coffee? Should you arrange a car, or plan to meet there? And how effective are your conversation skills when it matters most?
A practice date offers a unique opportunity to find out.
You’ll go on a real date with one of our professional, attractive ambassadors in a relaxed, pressure-free setting. Afterward, you’ll receive direct, honest feedback on everything from communication and presence to pacing and etiquette—giving you clear, actionable insight into how to elevate your dating success.
